I'm trying to navigate what I want, since I'm not in a relationship and thus can be choosy. Hah. Hah.
People keep telling me to try Tindr and meet great partners on it, but I don't drink enough to do hookups these days. Like, I've got not objection to it, and I used to be capable of one-night stands or relationships that started sexual and became more committed (the latter is pretty good for me, actually) but now I've gotten way too awkward. Not to mention that since it's image and cell-based, I'm inherently uncomfortable about it in a way I wouldn't be if I just met someone IRL first, or through DW or whatever.
Several old friends recently told me that they were attracted to me and I think I balked. It's partially because they're both poly, and I don't actually think I am poly after all, but it's also because I'm genuinely confused about who and what I want these days.
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Date: 2019-02-07 11:01 pm (UTC)People keep telling me to try Tindr and meet great partners on it, but I don't drink enough to do hookups these days. Like, I've got not objection to it, and I used to be capable of one-night stands or relationships that started sexual and became more committed (the latter is pretty good for me, actually) but now I've gotten way too awkward. Not to mention that since it's image and cell-based, I'm inherently uncomfortable about it in a way I wouldn't be if I just met someone IRL first, or through DW or whatever.
Several old friends recently told me that they were attracted to me and I think I balked. It's partially because they're both poly, and I don't actually think I am poly after all, but it's also because I'm genuinely confused about who and what I want these days.