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Jul. 18th, 2010 12:09 pmLet's see. Friday evening, I took a nice walk down to the lake shore with Michelle. We debated the wisdom of walking down past the Southport Beachouse and onto the sand when the park seemed likely to be closed, but proceeded anyway. I'm glad we did, as we ended up lying down on the flat rocks that ring the beach and looking up at the sky, far from any street lamps or other illumination, watching the stars. I think I might even have seen the Milky Way, though I'm not sure it was quite that dark (there were still some lights several hundred yards away) and I don't know the sky well enough to know where to look for the Milky Way.
We talked a bit about the everyday facts of knowledge that have been lost in history. How before there were such things as streetlights, everyone would have known what the sky looked like very well. The stars would have been a much bigger part of people's lives, for so many thousands of years. And now, I suspect a lot of people hardly ever think about them.
We walked north all the way to the south end of the marina, then back to the house. I, who have not done this much walking since my trip to DC, was starting to get pretty tired by then, but we made it safely back. Both the exercise and the conversation were thoroughly enjoyable. Thanks Michelle!
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Yesterday, I drove down to meetup with
posicat and
nova_wolf in Grayslake, then the three of us journeyed to
anarchist_nomad's place, with
tybis following along in his own car. We stopped at Garden Fresh Market on the way there and the group decided on baklava as a good party gift for me to buy for the the communal table.
I'm so glad I went to the gathering. I'm also very glad to see how well I mange social situations lately. Though at first I was worried that I'd be nervous and have a hard time talking to people as I have traditionally had in the past, quite the opposite was true. I integrated seamlessly into the killer-death-supermutant-foursquare game that was happening, ducking in and out of the fray for the occasional cup of water and yummy tidbit.
After that, I chatted with Nomad for a while, as he grilled burgers, about what's been going on in my life and my future plans. He was fully encouraging of my plans to go back to school, and again suggested I come out to visit him in the UK. Nomad is a genuinely warm and affectionate person, and as we talked it was almost as though we'd seen each other just last week.
I went into the house and joined in a conversation with
unclevlad and a couple other people (who slowly broke off the group, probably to go sit at the bonfire) that covered things like the role of religion in secular governments, the scalability of socialism, or empowerment of workers and their personal investment in their businesses. For the most part, I was quiet as I listened and considered, but I had a few things to add myself.
In fact, I sat and talked long enough that Posi and Nova came to get me to get on the road. It would have been nice to sit by the fire for a while, or even try the firewalking that happens there annually, but all is well. Maybe next year!
As I was leaving, I made sure to tell people how nice it was to talk to them, and that I really hope to have more chances to do the same. For a long time, I've somehow kept myself at the periphery; not been good at getting to know people in much depth. I feel, or at least hope, that that's one of the many things in my life that is in the process of change at the moment. I often find myself sitting off to the side for half an hour or forty-five minutes at the start of a party, waiting to get comfortable with the environment and noise and people. I didn't do that this time. Instead, I just floated naturally between groups and enjoyed myself. I definitely want to do more of that, at parties, conventions, or wherever I find myself these days.
We talked a bit about the everyday facts of knowledge that have been lost in history. How before there were such things as streetlights, everyone would have known what the sky looked like very well. The stars would have been a much bigger part of people's lives, for so many thousands of years. And now, I suspect a lot of people hardly ever think about them.
We walked north all the way to the south end of the marina, then back to the house. I, who have not done this much walking since my trip to DC, was starting to get pretty tired by then, but we made it safely back. Both the exercise and the conversation were thoroughly enjoyable. Thanks Michelle!
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Yesterday, I drove down to meetup with
I'm so glad I went to the gathering. I'm also very glad to see how well I mange social situations lately. Though at first I was worried that I'd be nervous and have a hard time talking to people as I have traditionally had in the past, quite the opposite was true. I integrated seamlessly into the killer-death-supermutant-foursquare game that was happening, ducking in and out of the fray for the occasional cup of water and yummy tidbit.
After that, I chatted with Nomad for a while, as he grilled burgers, about what's been going on in my life and my future plans. He was fully encouraging of my plans to go back to school, and again suggested I come out to visit him in the UK. Nomad is a genuinely warm and affectionate person, and as we talked it was almost as though we'd seen each other just last week.
I went into the house and joined in a conversation with
In fact, I sat and talked long enough that Posi and Nova came to get me to get on the road. It would have been nice to sit by the fire for a while, or even try the firewalking that happens there annually, but all is well. Maybe next year!
As I was leaving, I made sure to tell people how nice it was to talk to them, and that I really hope to have more chances to do the same. For a long time, I've somehow kept myself at the periphery; not been good at getting to know people in much depth. I feel, or at least hope, that that's one of the many things in my life that is in the process of change at the moment. I often find myself sitting off to the side for half an hour or forty-five minutes at the start of a party, waiting to get comfortable with the environment and noise and people. I didn't do that this time. Instead, I just floated naturally between groups and enjoyed myself. I definitely want to do more of that, at parties, conventions, or wherever I find myself these days.


