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National Coming Out Day
Oct. 11th, 2014 04:40 pmI'm freaking out right now about a number of things, mostly GRE math. I don't have the time and brain power to write up the longer post that I'd like to. However, I feel like it's important to me to publicly and explicitly say a few things about myself on national coming out day.
It's very easy to be someone who is in an invisible minority to ride the coattails of heterosexual privilege, or monogamous privilege, or other kinds of privilege. It's important to me to be an active part of making alternatives to social norms more well-known and understood. To make them into something that isn't the scary other. To that end:
I am not heterosexual. Neither am I homosexual. My attraction to others is largely independent of sex or gender. It's easy for others not to know this about me because my partners are both female, so I want to state it explicitly.
I do not identify as male, nor do I identify as female. I object to socially constructed, gendered norms of behavior. Each individual deserves the right to construct their own lives without their society piling irrational baggage onto them in the forms of expected behaviors based solely on a biological accident of birth. It's easy for others not to know this about me because I generally have a masculine presentation of self, so I want to state it explicitly.
I am not monogamous. I practice consensual non-monogamy, communicating fully and openly with my partner(s) to construct a relationship paradigm where we are all free to make our own choices as we seek happiness in our own ways. It's easy for others not to know this about me because I don't get to spend a lot of social time with my partners and friends, so I want to state it explicitly.
If you have any questions or comments, please feel free!
It's very easy to be someone who is in an invisible minority to ride the coattails of heterosexual privilege, or monogamous privilege, or other kinds of privilege. It's important to me to be an active part of making alternatives to social norms more well-known and understood. To make them into something that isn't the scary other. To that end:
I am not heterosexual. Neither am I homosexual. My attraction to others is largely independent of sex or gender. It's easy for others not to know this about me because my partners are both female, so I want to state it explicitly.
I do not identify as male, nor do I identify as female. I object to socially constructed, gendered norms of behavior. Each individual deserves the right to construct their own lives without their society piling irrational baggage onto them in the forms of expected behaviors based solely on a biological accident of birth. It's easy for others not to know this about me because I generally have a masculine presentation of self, so I want to state it explicitly.
I am not monogamous. I practice consensual non-monogamy, communicating fully and openly with my partner(s) to construct a relationship paradigm where we are all free to make our own choices as we seek happiness in our own ways. It's easy for others not to know this about me because I don't get to spend a lot of social time with my partners and friends, so I want to state it explicitly.
If you have any questions or comments, please feel free!
