I'm Popular in Minneapolis...
Dec. 4th, 2014 10:04 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
stormdogI got an invitation on Fetlife to join a swingers group. In Minneapolis. Since that's about a six hour drive from here, I'd be puzzled even if my profile said anything about being a swinger. Which it doesn't. Not that I object to swinging; I just don't know if it would work for me and I don't want to jump into that scene at this point.
I sent a note back thanking him for the invitation, but saying that neither my partners nor I are swingers and I don't think that I'm the target audience for his group.
I'm still trying to figure out what *would* work for me in terms of taking a few steps into the kink community. I enjoyed the local munch I went to a few months ago, but I've been too busy to go back. I might start again in the new year, but I'm also likely to be moving away somewhere, so I can't help but wonder if it makes sense to start making social connections now. *sighs*
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I finished a draft of my personal statement for grad school. I still have more to do on it, and I have a take-home final to work on. But other than that, I'm kind of at loose ends. I feel like I should be doing something productive. I really do. But I just as badly want to just relax and not do much. But I don't want to keep sitting and refreshing social media like I've been doing off and on.
I think...I think I'm going to read something! I remember what that's like! Probably non-fiction still, but hey, baby steps.
I sent a note back thanking him for the invitation, but saying that neither my partners nor I are swingers and I don't think that I'm the target audience for his group.
I'm still trying to figure out what *would* work for me in terms of taking a few steps into the kink community. I enjoyed the local munch I went to a few months ago, but I've been too busy to go back. I might start again in the new year, but I'm also likely to be moving away somewhere, so I can't help but wonder if it makes sense to start making social connections now. *sighs*
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I finished a draft of my personal statement for grad school. I still have more to do on it, and I have a take-home final to work on. But other than that, I'm kind of at loose ends. I feel like I should be doing something productive. I really do. But I just as badly want to just relax and not do much. But I don't want to keep sitting and refreshing social media like I've been doing off and on.
I think...I think I'm going to read something! I remember what that's like! Probably non-fiction still, but hey, baby steps.
